After many decades of studying Irish proverbs, they have become good friends whose voices speak to me with kindness, with sly wit, and with graceful intelligence. They take the long view.

Here, at the beginning of the year with a million hopes, desires, and goals swirling in our minds and the kind of excitement that could burn too hot and eat through its own fuel, the proverbs offer tempering and encouraging wisdom. One I teach to every Irish class steps forwards first:

Tús maith leath na hoibre.

“A good start is half the work.”

Just get going. Set yourself in motion, this one counsels, and you’ll be on your way.

And then this one offers its curious reassurance:

Bíonn gach tosach lag.

“Every beginning is weak.”

Don’t expect too much, it tells us. Don’t ask the infant project to stand up and pay taxes. Let it be young and tender.

And then of course, here comes this old favorite:

Mol an óige agus tiocfaidh sí.

“Praise youth and it will flourish.”

This fledgling project, this dream in early days, this young and hopeful part of yourself – give it some love and appreciation. Criticism has never fertilized a dream flower. Only praise and belief can do that.

Take it easy and slow, says this one:

Ní thógtar caisleán i lá.

“No castle was built in a day.”

Things take time. Let the journey unfold and enjoy it.

And finally, here’s one that encapsulates one of the most valuable lessons I learned last year:

Leagfaidh tua bheag crann mór.

“A small axe fells a big tree.”

Little things add up! Every minute, every small act, every penny saved, every mile logged, ever paragraph written, every scale played – all of it matters.

Let’s be kind, let’s pace ourselves, let’s encourage our tender dreams, and let’s praise and savor every step of the journey.

Wishing you flow, ease, and pleasure as you create your heart’s desires in 2023!

PS – I made this Brigit’s cross in my Irish Religious Folklore class this fall. It is quite small, and I was amused to describe it as “a very festive tarantula.” I include it here in honor of our dear Brigit who is definitely the patron saint and goddess of beginnings.

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