If it makes you feel worried, small, powerless, or in any way LESS (hopeful, eager, strong, passionate), it’s NOT FOR YOU.

If it makes you feel strong, eager, alive, expanded, empowered, or MORE yourself, it’s FOR YOU.

This goes for advice – solicited or unsolicited, comments, thoughts, ideas, marketing, opportunities and possibilities, and anything else that you might take on as a course of action, mode of thinking, or way of life.

There is no evaluation. No complicated weighing of merits, reasons, analyses. There is also no drama of judgement. It’s a simple knowing:

FOR ME or NOT FOR ME.

That said, it takes practice. There are loud voices, including especially the ones in our own heads. But there is clarity, too, and like music, like any art, clarity can be practiced.

Let’s practice.

(Evidently, this one-week old baby lamb counts in the FOR ME category 🙂).