Hello, my friends! Here's the official invitation to join in April's Poetry Celebration that I'm co-hosting with Jumping Fox Design, maker of truly gorgeous journals. We would love to welcome you to the community of poets this month to write and share poems, to read and listen to poetry by contemporary poets, and to [...]
If you’ve ever found yourself in the clutch of comparison (and who hasn’t? I sure have), you know how life- and pleasure-squelching it can be. In this, the fourth video in my “Creative Hurts and How to Heal Them” series, I tackle this bugbear, Comparison. I’m speaking to artists and creators, but really, that’s all [...]
It's so much fun to set things up for yourself in the way that feels the best. Not in the way others advise, even if their advice is well-intentioned. Not in the way that "it's always been done." Not in the "smart way to do it." Instead: in the way that feels like pleasure/relief/homecoming/yes, please: [...]
Let's say that you are a Unicorn. People have various reactions to you - to what you are. Some say, "That's ridiculous. You can't be a Unicorn. There's no such thing. Don't be foolish." Others say, "Well, aren't you adorable? So quaint. So otherworldly. A little out of touch and funny. Cute!" Also, "I [...]
Hello, friends! Here's the third video in my series, "Creative Hurts and How to Heal Them." This one is about MISTAKES. So scary to think about making them! So scary that fear of public mistakes can keep us from making and sharing our art and ourselves. I hope so much you find it helpful, [...]
Hello, friends! Here is the second video in my new series, "Creative Hurts and How to Heal Them." This one is all about that scary bugbear, CRITICISM. How do we handle it? Is there such a thing as "good" criticism? How do we put it in perspective? I also share my own story of receiving [...]
Just a little story today to cheer you. My mother told me that she went out for lunch recently and met a woman who, at age 90, fairly crackled with life and creative spirit. "If you lived here, you'd be friends with her for sure," she told me on the phone. Turns out, the woman's [...]
Have you ever been rejected from a festival, gig, journal, or contest - and then felt the burn and sting of that "no"? I sure have. I've just made a video with four strategies that help me deal with the rejection that is part and parcel of being an artist in the world. Happens to [...]
You've gotta play to win! This is just as true of music and poetry and art and love as it is of the lottery. And the good news is that we're a lot more likely to actually WIN in those games because the odds are always in our favor. Ask, try, submit, propose, invite, query, [...]
Just a bit of encouragement: every so often, go through the stacks, the piles, the shoals of unfinished work. For me, that is always bits of paper with poems scribbled on them and then put into rough cairns to be re-found, often months later. What is somewhat funny to me is that the reason I [...]
